TG,
Don't sweat it for starters. Second, Rhodan is actually pretty damn cool. I know the game basically like you do from back in the C64 days. The people giving you grief about playing to slow, well, I can kind of understand it. Basically players like to have the game moving. Sitting at the summary screen, or production screen not clicking to get on through it is irritating as the game does take a good hour and a half to complete even when its moving along. Everyone of the Vets here understand that there is a bit of a learning curve when you get started with the online version and those that don't. Well, lets just say that they are being dickish. Personally, I don't blow off noobs as im still learning the online tricks myself.
If someone is being a dick. Tell them they are being a dick. This isn't an X rated website or game, but its also not G either. Most everyone playing is well over the age of 18. I don't take crap from players here and they don't take it from me.
Mule Etiquette
1. Summary page, don't sit there for a month of sunday's unless you have told the other players you need to step away for a minute or two. Nobody like for a player to end a round and walk away for the next 5 minutes. That will straight up piss off the nicest of players.
2. Production page, seriously do we really need to sit there and watch each unit being produced. HOWEVER, I personally am very guilty of letting it run when I gotta take a piss or have a quick smoke.. I personally break this rule.

But screw it, I do like to enjoy myself when im playing the game.
3. Smack talk! YOU MUST TALK A LITTLE TRASH! within reason of course.

4. Sometimes you might be about to start a new game or you have entered a new game and by rights if you are in there and have joined before another player. By rights you should be entitled to play it. However, sometimes a group of players are setting up for a rematch or they are all trying to hook up and you just got in there before all four could connect. It is not out of line for them to ask you to leave, the nice people will ask you to. Rude people will just kick ya out.
Finally, this game does not have that great of a following. So, nobody wants or is trying to run off a new player.
Cheers! and merry Christmas!
To everyone else, I'm gonna kick your asses!
FI